“I revealed too much too soon. I was emotionally slutty.”

She's Just Not That Into You:
Nowadays the main form of communication is texting. We don't email or call that much anymore. But this rule can apply for any of these: texting, calling, or emailing but let's use texting for this example. After your initial meeting with a girl and the exchanging of numbers happens, if you text her and she doesn't text back the same day or the next day at the latest, then she's just not that into you. Unlike guys, who have some rule where they wait a minimum of two days to call or text, girls have no such rule. We don't like to wait and don't think we should have to wait. If we get a text from you we don't wait to respond. And this is a general rule even if it's not right after an initial first meeting, if you have known a girl for awhile and are currently just friends, are dating, friends with benefits, or whatever the case be, if she is not texting you back the same day or the next day at the latest you should get the hint and try texting someone else.

She's Into You:
When a girl is texting you about something trivial or makes you think 'why is she texting me about this'? Wake up and realize she's trying to find a reason to talk to you. And if you don't really know what to say that doesn't matter. Say anything and end it with a smiley face! She's already into you.

A Tip:
If you just had a date or a romantic hangout, text her right after to say you had a good time. Girls love that kind of thing because it shows you aren't trying to keep your cool and be unavailable.

“Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies.”

She's Just Not That Into You:

If a girl is making excuses to not be alone with you or to get out of dates... she's just not that into you. It's exactly like how a guy is into you he will make it happen, if a girl is into you she will make it happen! Unless it is absolutely impossible for her to go, take this sign as a bad one. A girl is all about getting the alone time, especially if she is interested in something more with you. She wants the romance, and for it to be special. Making up excuses to get out of dates means she wants you to get the hint she doesn't think of you romantically.

She's Into You:

One of the biggest signs that a girl is into you is PHYSICAL TOUCH. A girl couldn't be more clear about being into you if she's always trying to touch you! I don't care if she's just touching you when she's teasing playfully, she's into you on some level. It could even be very subtle touch such as touching your hand, brushing against you, etc. Body language can say it all. Like they say, "about 80% of what you're sayin, ain't comin out of your mouth". If she wants to be near you, that's a good sign.

A Tip:

1) Don't be afraid to ask a girl out, you're chances are probably better than you think.

2) Just be up front and clear with a girl/woman you're interested in and tell her what you're thinking and feeling. A girl likes a guy who takes charge and if you're up front you don't have to play games.

3) If it doesn't go the way you want at least you find out now, rather than wasting your time with assumptions.

“Maybe all men are a drug. Sometimes they bring you down and sometimes, like now, they get you so high."

She's Just Not That Into You:

If you take her out, just you and her, to either coffee, a meal, a movie, etc. even if its not technically a date if she is talking about other guys excessively... you need to forget about it because this is a clear sign that she's just not that into you. When a girl is into you she doesn't want to talk about any other guys in the fear that you might get the wrong idea, she would much rather talk about you. Ex: There was this one time when my guy friend and I went to get coffee (as we would about once a month at the time) and for a good chunk of the time I was talking about these two guys I was interested in. I went on and on. Then at the end of getting coffee... he asked me out! I was so confused. So just forewarning in most cases a girl talking about other guys is a red flag.

She's Into You:

A subtle sign that guys may not notice is if you are sitting down chatting with a girl and she is leaning towards you.. she's into you. The leaning in and smiling is she likes you 101. She might even fidget a bit, which is also a good sign because it means she's slightly nervous which means she cares. Ex: When I'm on a date with a guy and I'm into him I lean in when we're talking because I want to be closer to him. It feels more intimate.

A Tip:

All women want to be respected by their men and not treated like we are just another woman. We have made this clear by over the years stressing respect. BUT what guys need to know is that every woman wants to know that you want to disrespect her aka want to touch her and want to push the envelope. That way she feels sexy and wanted. So you want to do all these things, but you respect her enough not to try unless she gives you the go ahead. Get the idea? This way you are respectful but you have that slight bad boy inside of you.

Girl Code

After seeing the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" a couple years ago, I have constantly thought.. why isn't there a guide like this for men? Especially since men find women utterly confusing, just as women find men confusing at times. This is going to be a guide for men who need to understand "girl code", the language we speak, and the signals we give. I will tell you how to know when "She's just not that into you" and when "She is into you".